on a different note today. dunno if u guys ada baca or its in the news, but my FIL told us later in the evening after nikah day (saturday), that a baby was found in the folds of a prayer mat in the masjid terapung (the one where the nikah was held), dead. it was juz hours before the akad ceremony when they found the body. i dunno the details but it appeared that the baby's tali pusat was not clamped, which if it was, may save the baby's life.
we were appalled that somebody blh buat something like that. obviously it was a muslim doing it lah kan, dah campak dlm masjid. i mean, ko nak baby ko tu selamat ke x? rasa mcm blh selamat kalo dok kat masjid, tp yg p bungkus dgn sejadah tu apsal? x ke lemas budak tu? ke ko mmg benak, xtau org mmg susah bernafas kalo terbungkus cmtu? kok ye pun xnak budak tu, jgn la bunuh... ramai org lagi sanggup beratur nak jaga anak ko. like, some ppl sampai bergolok gadai nak cari duit nak usaha dapat anak, those procedures can reach smpai puluh2 ribu. ko Allah bagi senang dpt anak, main buang cmtu je. binatang pun tau sayang anak tau!
tu la... lain kali, dah pandai buat anak, dah dapat anak tu jaga la. ni dok seronok nak 'main' je, dah dapat anak campak2. berani main, berani la tanggung!